“Wounds take time to heal. Stop growing frustrated with yourself and the process that closure demands. You deserve the same patience you gave the very people who are responsible for the wounds you are stuck fighting to close.”
“Stop apologizing. You don’t have to say sorry for how you laugh, how you dress, how you make your hair, how you do your makeup, how you speak. You don’t have to be sorry for being yourself. Do it fearlessly. It’s time to accept: this is you, and you gotta spend the rest of your life with you. So start loving your sarcasm, your awkwardness, your weirdness, your peculiar habits, your unique sense of humor, your voice, your talents, your everything. It will make your life so much easier to simply be yourself.”
Self-confidence has an effect on everything we do, from job interviews to first dates. Such an important tool should be kept as sharp as possible so that you’re always on top form and mentally ready for anything. Whether you need to build your confidence from the ground up or simply need to put the cherry on top of the cake, these psychology tips to get your self-confidence back on track will do you wonders!
Not sure how good your self-confidence is? Try the Mind Tools Self Confidence Test, there’s a link at the end of the article.
1. Be Superstitious!
It sounds weird but recent research has shown that superstition can boost confidence when the superstitious person is in the presence of their lucky charm, or has heard phrases such as ‘break a leg’ before completing a task. Not only does it increase confidence but it also….
Stop telling yourself that the grass is greener on the other side, because it’s not. It is greener where you water it. So take control of your life and start watering your own pastures and grow your own greener grasses.
it’s taking everything in me just not to text you and tell you how much I miss you and regardless of all the stupid shit you do, I will always love you. but I feel like you already know that and that’s maybe why you do the things you do. I sit here and re-read messages from earlier this year and I can’t help but feel it all over again. just because you love something does it mean it’s always right for you? it must not be if you always find someone else….
I didn’t ask you to return in my life. all I’m saying is you didn’t have to do all of this just to let me go and give me no clarification, warning, or honesty as if I wasn’t worth it.
it’s not my fault. it’s not my fault.
I was there, and you left……kinda like you always do.
I just hate myself for falling for it again. no matter how much you love someone, sometimes they are just like every other guy.
feed you everything so beautifully. you’re the only one, my unicorn, it’s special, it’s different.
no matter what they say, they’ll still leave you hanging.
uhhhh.
this was meant to be a sap post, idk how it turned into …. that.
